PERSONALITY—-> CONFIDENCE
The answer my friend lies in the fact that women are tuned to be attracted to not just looks but MEN, not boys. 
What do I mean by that ?

You become a man, when, you are in control of your emotions .

You become a man, when, you develop the confidence to not be offended by stupid things and be emotionally swayed by your needs.
You become a man, when, you acquire the patience to listen to your woman talk.

You become a man, when, you dont expect your woman to take care of you.

You become a man, when, your absence makes your woman think of you all the time.

You become a man, when, you dont have to curse and raise your voice in order to be heard.
You become a man, when, you dont feel threatened by other men and stop being insecure about yourself.
You become man, when, you can get hit hard by life, and still stay focused on your vision and dreams.
You become a man, when, you develop the empathy to shed a tear at another mans misery.
You become a man, when, you can hangout with the homeless, play with the disabled, cheer up little kids and hangout with old people without ever feeling that youre doing this out of pity and sympathy.
You become a man, when, you can laugh at yourself and not care.
You become a man, when, you know when to draw the line and give up in an argument without making it a fight.
Women like, style, charisma, well groomed, good smelling and clean men. These things need to be baked into your lifestyle and daily routine. 
Start practicing, because time is running out and your chance of attracting your dream woman is also getting slimmer. 
Cheers
Source: https://www.quora.com/Why-the-beautiful-girls-always-go-for-average-looking-boyfriends