Avoid depression by regularly releasing all of the hurts and pains, and then make affirmations and fix your eyes on these goals and stay optimistic. It’s a tough battle, a hard uphill climb, but your fortitude will save you an entire decade of nothingness. This is a practice that you must perform and maintain regularly, just like how people like to go to church every Sunday.
You must learn, as young as you are, to let go of any beloved man, who does not make efforts to share beautiful days with you. Attraction is not truth. The sensation of fatedness has no spiritual basis. Your feelings matter only when his virtues support you. Love is defined and determined by virtues. Not attraction, not (your) inspiration. You can have all these but virtues come first, and without this, the connection is 100% a fluke.
Do not put all eggs in one basket, when dating. Avoid getting attached to anyone unless they have offered commitment. And commitment is perfectly synchronized, harmonious ways of being.
Life and relationships are all about Discovery. Enjoy every new sights and ideas and feeling.
Never identify with “lack.” Never act from a space of need.
You are creative, you share joy. You participate only in relationships of mutual empowerment.